tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17426446.post5421503837830437586..comments2023-09-29T09:35:57.688-04:00Comments on tranquility du jour: hip tranquil chick podcast #103: dear htc 3kimberly wilsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01133076842269717396noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17426446.post-34666346944687073712007-10-09T10:47:00.000-04:002007-10-09T10:47:00.000-04:00Anonymous/Amy! Fellow HTC, thanks for your great c...Anonymous/Amy! Fellow HTC, thanks for your great comment. I would love to chat with you more, if you're interested. I am the girl with the three year relationship, which has ended too. :( Maybe we can exchange email addresses? Sounds like we may have a lot in common. You can reach me at neb2402-at-gmail-dot-com. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17426446.post-85129324122294013362007-10-08T20:41:00.000-04:002007-10-08T20:41:00.000-04:00Hi Kimberly and fellow HTCs!I wanted to comment on...Hi Kimberly and fellow HTCs!<BR/><BR/>I wanted to comment on the first question about relationships...<BR/><BR/>I recently ended a 3-yr relationship. Nothing was terribly wrong, but it just wasn't working somehow. I couldn't pinpoint what wasn't there (I still can't), but I knew something was missing. The biggest clue was that I didn't feel like I could be myself around him. I felt like I was playing a part in a play.<BR/><BR/>It was so hard for me to end the relationship. I didn't want to be single again! Would I survive? Would I ever meet Mr. Right?<BR/><BR/>A very wise girlfriend told me that some of the best things in her life happened after she took a leap of faith, jumped into (or out of) a situation before she knew what would happen next. So, following her advice, I took a leap of faith.<BR/><BR/>For the next several months, I fell in love with myself. I loved being single! Of course, as soon as I made the conscious choice to *never* settle for less than true happiness (and truly looking forward to a long life as a single girl), I met Mr. Right. Go figure!<BR/><BR/>So... My advice to you would be do some tough, tough thinking about whether you are truly happy and can be yourself with this guy. If not, take a leap of faith. It may be the toughest thing you ever do, but it'll be worth it (and you'll love yourself more!) in the end.<BR/><BR/>But no matter what... DON'T SETTLE! :)<BR/><BR/>Love, Amy<BR/><BR/>ps- If you've never seen "The Secret", watch it. It'll change your life!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17426446.post-35602457206927953142007-10-08T15:10:00.001-04:002007-10-08T15:10:00.001-04:00a free resource is at www.INFJ.coma free resource is at www.INFJ.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17426446.post-1743507351168146942007-10-08T15:10:00.000-04:002007-10-08T15:10:00.000-04:00Kimberly,Thank you so much for responding to my qu...Kimberly,<BR/>Thank you so much for responding to my question! I am so grateful and delighted to hear your thoughts. I am going to go out and grab that book, too.<BR/>Warm, warm wishes, and thanks again.<BR/>-NAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com